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Here are downsizing tips for older adults who need to make an urgent move to senior care. Photo Credit: iStock.com/travelism

Downsizing is a process most seniors face ahead of a move. Ideally, you’d be able to plan to downsize ahead of a senior move, but that isn’t always the case. If you or your loved one has experienced an injury, illness, or hospitalization that makes it unsafe to return home, you’ll have to downsize quickly. Here are some tips to help you downsize before an urgent move to senior care.

Find the right community

The first thing you should do before an urgent move is find the right senior care community. This is especially true if you or your loved one has to move directly from the hospital into a new senior care community. It’s important to find a safe, comfortable environment that they can transition to quickly.

Consider working with a professional senior care advisor

Working with a senior care advisor can help you find the right community. These professionals work in local areas, so they know the communities even before you tour them. Receiving objective information from a professional can help you weigh the options, particularly during a time when you need to make a quick decision.

Senior care advisors also understand the many factors that go into choosing a community. A senior’s health situation, financial resources, family support, and geographic location are all contributing factors in choosing the right community for them. A senior care advisor can help translate the nuances of each to help seniors and their families understand their options best.

Communicate with the senior living community

The senior living community can be an important source of support during an urgent move. Clear communication can help you avoid last-minute confusion and make sure the new space is ready on move-in day. Reach out early to ask what is provided, what should be brought right away, and what steps the community can help coordinate before arrival.

The community may be able to help by:

  • Explaining what furniture, equipment, and basic supplies are already in the new space.
  • Helping you decide which belongings to bring first and which can wait.
  • Recommending packing, moving, or senior move management services.
  • Coordinating timing around hospital discharge or rehab.
  • Making sure medications, medical equipment, and care items are ready ahead of the transition.
  • Confirming move-in day logistics, such as when to arrive, where to park and unload, and who will help with check-in.

In many cases, staff can also help make the move feel less overwhelming by supporting the resident’s comfort, dignity, and sense of control throughout the transition.

Prioritize packing belongings that are needed right away

You won’t have much time to consider what you want to keep before an urgent move. Focus on packing and moving essential belongings that you will need in the new space on move-in day.

Essential items to start packing right away include:

  • Medical essentials: Medications, medication schedules, and medical equipment.
  • Important documents: IDs, insurance cards, and banking basics (checkbook, debit, and credit cards, etc.).
  • Clothing: Three to seven days of comfortable outfits including sleepwear, undergarments, nonslip shoes, and layers, like sweaters.
  • Personal care items: Toothbrush and toothpaste, glasses, hearing aids and batteries, hairbrush, skin care items, and incontinence supplies, if needed.
  • Sleep and comfort items: A favorite pillow, bedding, and a robe.
  • Tech essentials: Cell phone and charger, tablet, and laptop.
  • Immediate food and drink items: Water bottle, snacks, and essential dishware.

Choose items that will make the new space functional and familiar

An urgent move can be emotionally challenging. You can make the transition easier for yourself or a loved one by making the new space as functional and familiar as possible right away.

You should pack a few things above and beyond the essentials, but it can be difficult to narrow down what you might need. Instead of focusing on what you should pack, ask yourself what would cause stress, confusion, or harm if you or your loved one had to go without it for a few days. Also think about items that are easy to pack and that will bring comfort into the new space. This will help you focus on packing the items that are truly important.

A few things to consider bringing include:

  • Comfortable and functional furniture that you know you want to keep according to what is and isn’t provided by the senior living facility. For example, you might need to bring a bedframe, an end table, and a favorite recliner.
  • Favorite books, framed photos, and artwork.
  • Spiritual items.
  • A favorite coffee mug.
  • A throw blanket.

Create a realistic timeline for other moving tasks

Even if you likely won’t be able to create a moving timeline before an urgent move, it’s still important to make one as you go through the moving process. There are many things you will still need to consider, even if you or your loved one has already moved into their new space.

For example, you should:

  • Schedule a second pass through the belongings left behind in the home to decide what to keep, what to get rid of, and whether anything should be stored.
  • Create a timeline for cleaning out the house, contacting a realtor, and putting it on the market.
  • Take care of administrative tasks like forwarding mail, transferring or canceling utilities, and updating your address with banks, insurance providers, and other providers.
  • Decide what to do with vehicles.
  • Cancel unnecessary memberships.
  • Notify local organizations, like churches and nonprofit services, of the move.
  • Create a plan that helps you or your loved one join activities, meet residents, or plan visits to make the transition easier.

There are also some legal and financial considerations that can make an urgent move easier:

Consider hiring senior moving services

Senior moving services are helpful during any senior move, but they can be especially helpful if your move is urgent. They coordinate with movers on your behalf to pack and move boxes and furniture, but they can do more than that. They also:

  • Plan, organize, and schedule every aspect of the move.
  • Help you downsize according to what will fit into the new space.
  • Arrange for the removal of unwanted items through sales, donations, junk removal, and shipping.
  • Arrange for other services, including storage, cleaning, and waste removal.
  • Unpack boxes and help you set up your new space.
  • Connect you with a realtor who can help you sell your home.
  • Offer specialized support for local and long-distance moves.

They also offer emotional support to both you and your loved ones throughout the move. They can free up your time so you can explore the new community and work through the emotions associated with an urgent move, rather than packing and carrying boxes.

Take an urgent move to senior care one step at a time

With so many things to do in such a short amount of time, an urgent move to senior care can feel overwhelming. You can make the process feel more manageable by tackling it one step at a time. By focusing on completing one step before moving on to the next one, you can complete an urgent move as quickly, comfortably, and safely as possible.